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Happy Pride 2021 - Books

        Hello to all you beautiful LGBTQ people around the world.

I hope you are all having a happy and safe pride so far, over the next couple of days I will be posting queer books I have read/ currently reading and recommendations, just because I can. #HappyPride2021

Outlaw Marriages by Rodger Streitmatter

For more than a century before gay marriage became a hot-button political issue, same-sex unions flourished in America. Pairs of men and pairs of women joined together in committed unions, standing by each other “for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health” for periods of thirty or forty—sometimes as many as fifty—years. In short, they loved and supported each other every bit as much as any husband and wife.

In Outlaw Marriages, cultural historian Rodger Streitmatter reveals how some of these unions didn’t merely improve the quality of life for the two people involved but also enriched the American culture.



Red Azalea by Anchee Min

Red Azalea is Anchee Min’s celebrated memoir of growing up in the last years of Mao’s China. As a child, she was asked to publicly humiliate a teacher; at seventeen, she was sent to work at a labour collective. Forbidden to speak, dress, read, write, or love as she pleased, she found a lifeline in a secret love affair with another woman. Miraculously selected for the film version of one of Madame Mao’s political operas, Min’s life changed overnight. Then Chairman Mao suddenly died, taking with him an entire world. A revelatory and disturbing portrait of China.


REVIEW: Sensitive 2 in 1 Styler

Venus Pink Sensitive Styler

Venus 2in1 Bikini and Eyebrow Styler

Venus 2in1 Bikini and Eyebrow Styler, designed with two separate heads for styling the bikini line and eyebrows. The gentle high precision head, handles like a pen and is designed for detailed eyebrow styling. The slim bikini head is designed to shave precise lines, manoeuvring around every contour for easy use, even in your most delicate areas.- High precision head - Designed for detailed styling, precise and gentle. It handles like a pen - you draw something beautiful

- High precision head can be used to shape eyebrows
- Slim bikini shaping head - Designed to shave precise lines, shapes or contours
- 2 trimming combs - 5mm and 8mm
- Contents: Venus 2in1 styler comes with a bikini shaping head, high precision head and protection cap, 2 trimming combs, cleaning brush, battery, carry pouch
- Battery powered


 



 Purchase: Superdrug
               Ebay
               ASOS
               Amazon

My Review: First OW!
I did my eyebrows first and let me tell you it dose not remove all the hair I got this so I didn't have to pluck or wax, fail...
Now the bikini area, Holy Hell that hurt, it felt like they where being plucked out this is no gentle setting at all just grab and pull.
I will be keeping it though for when I go abroad till I get settled and it will be my go to tool until I can find a place I am comfortable with or when I want to put a gangster slits in my brows (peace out).
I give this about 6/7 out of 10.
Two good things about this is it has its own little pouch to keep everything together and I got mine at a reduced price.

BOOKS: Smokejumper by Jason Ramos


Smoke jumper by Jason Ramos

Enter a world of breathtakingly danger and beauty: In this remarkable memoir, veteran smokejumper Jason Ramos offers a rare inside look at the lives of airborne firefighters, the select few who parachute into the most rugged and remote wild areas to battle nature's blazes.

My Review: This is the best book I have read this year. 
Straight talking and to the point but what a brilliant story and he reads it with a soothing voice.

Evening Skincare Routine


Hello Beautiful People

Today I am bringing you my Evening Skin Care Routing there's not many things I do so this post might be a little short one.

My Routine:
1: Put my hair up with a headband
2: Fill the sink with warm water
3: wet my face then use my cucumber wash LINK HERE
4: Dry my face 
5: Apply my Argan Oil night serum LINK HERE

My Opinion: I do like this product but I don't love it.
it worked wonders for my skin and if it didn't have the smell I would keep it forever but for me the smell although pleasant to others its just not something I wanted. I am going to finish what i have then try something different, but i do advise you to try it as it is a great serum.


Memorial Day For Comfort Woman in South Korea 14th March

      Memorial Day in South Korea for Comfort Woman

The international memorial day was held for Asian women forced into sexual slavery by the Japanese military during World War II.
The National ceremony marking the International Memorial Day for Comfort Women took place at the Hill of National Commemoration in Cheonan, south of Seoul, with the slogan of "memory for the future."
About 100 people, including elderly Korean women sexually enslaved by the imperial Japanese army, participated.
South Koreans have called on Japan to offer a sincere apology and compensation for the victims, but the neighbouring country has remained silent.
It is the third time that the government has hosted a national ceremony commemorating the day since 2018, when it was designated a national memorial day. 

The International Memorial Day for Comfort Women falls on Aug. 14th, the day when the late Kim Hak-soon, a former comfort woman, first publicly testified about Japan operating an organized military brothel program during the war in 1991.


"The testimony by Kim Hak-soon resonated across the globe, revealing the truth and the violence against women," she said. "Now we have to think of what we can learn from the tragedy in history."
The government then opened a digital archive that stored more than 500 files of documents and materials on "comfort women," a euphemistic term for the former sex slaves. 
The online depository (www.archive814.co.kr) includes reports by the United Nations forces during the Korean War and official statements by the Japanese government.

Up to 200,000 women, mostly Koreans, were coerced into sexual servitude in front-line Japanese brothels when the Korean Peninsula was a Japanese colony.





Love Language's

Hello you beautiful people today we are going to talk about love, more specifically what your love language is.

Their are 5 love languages:

1: Words of Affirmation
2: Quality time
3: Receiving gifts
4: Acts of service 
5: Physical touch

Describing love languages: 

- Word of Affirmations - Expressing verbal communication/ compliments/ praise and appreciation on your partner.
- Quality time - giving someone your undivided / focused/ unlimited attention regularly.
- Receiving gifts - Giving gifts as a symbol of love and affection.
- Acts of service - Completing tasks/ actions to show your love, cooking/ washing dishes/ cleaning.
- Physical Touch - Feeling affection through physical touch/ holding hands/ sex/ kissing/ cuddling.

My Results: 
My primary language is physical touch by 37%
I am very touchy, hugs, thoughtful touches on the arm, pat on the back can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care and love.
Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse are unforgivable and destructive.
Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety and love to me.

Quality time 33%
words of affirmation 13%
Acts of service 13%
Receiving gifts 3%


Road Trip To Blackpool

        Hey you beautiful people,
 I hope you have all been well and healthy.

Not much has happened really other than my mother and father got in touch and took me for the day in Blackpool.
We did the usual went shopping, walked down the pier which by the way was very windy, I bought us some hot sugary donuts which we all loved, we then came back home and stopped off at Windermere where had curry and chips by the lake and watched the boats. 
It was amazing to be out below are some videos of the day.




#LifeInaDay2020

     Take Part 

In 2020, history is being made every day. 

Australian bushfires. Civil unrest in Hong Kong. A pandemic that took precious lives and changed the way we live. Protests in every corner of America — and around the world — to demand that Black Lives Matter. But in the midst of these extraordinary events, everyday life still continues.

We share moments, music, and meals.

We dance. We laugh. We cry.

We love. We fear. We hope.

What if we captured all of it in a single day? On Saturday, July 25, 2020, film your day and upload your footage and you may become part of a historic documentary – a time capsule of the year 2020. 


Anyone can participate and submissions from all over the world will be woven together to create a feature film, produced by Ridley Scott, directed by Kevin Macdonald, filmed by you, and premiering at the 2021 Sundance Film Festival.
Submissions open on July 25th and close on August 2nd.

Let’s write the story of 2020 together.


Review: Blackhead Remover Facial Skin Care Vacuum

Alright guys I've got a crazy review for you, so everyone has been talking about Blackhead Remover Facial Skin Care Pore Cleaner Vacuum so I found on Ebay for under a tenner (bargain) I had to have it here's how it went in steps!

I read the instructions, all 6 pages of it!
- Put the machine on charge 
(it had some life in it but you can never be too sure)

- Then I washed my face with hot water to open the pores, clean all the days junk 

- The instructions say work from the chin up 
(did that it nipped a bit and suctioned my lips)

- Then the forehead: middle to hair line 
(ok did that that didn't hurt at all)

- Cheeks: nose to ear (I did that and holy fuck did it hurt)

- Nose: for this I choose a smaller head to get in the little sides of your nose 
(did it hurt? did it hurt? well yes it bloody did)

***PAIN WARNING ALWAYS USE THE MOST GENTLE/ LOWEST SETTING TO START***





Personal Review: 
This machine hurts so bad. I ended up giving my nose and the side of my mouth a hickey also I bruised my chin badly.
My face afterwards was so hot and red its unbelievable, I wont be using this again in a hurry maybe once a month (maybe) this was my first time using it so maybe I need more experience.

Aftercare: After you have used this machine I would recommend cooling your face down somewhat before doing anything. I used a coconut facemask and left it on for 15 minutes which too some of the redness out of it but it was still extremely hot. When you feel ready, go ahead with your usual night routine and enjoy your sleep and drink plenty of water.


Morning Skincare Routine

             Good morning everybody

Today we are talking about skincare routines and products.
I will be very honest with you mine is not no wear near expensive or lavish, mine is affordable with products that are made for combination skin, just a heads up there.

When we went into lockdown my routine was very basic and consisted of washing my face and applying moisturiser that was it. (shock horror) while in lockdown I found TikTok! (God help us all) and some of you ladies and gentlemen were doing your routines and makeup I was amazed, I was very interested I also learnt what order to put things in because I really never new (don't shame me).
I was never been feminine enough to know how things went nor was I very interested when I was younger.

I now have a 3 step routing with a few extras when I decided to pamper myself so without further a do here it is.

Step 1: Wash Your Face/ Cleanse
Cucumber Facial Scrub (Gently Exfoliates) Link Here
(The is a new addition to my routine as I finished my other one this has a cooling effect and smells of cucumbers)

 

Step 2: Apply Serum
Organic Hemp Face Serum Link Here 
(This serum is suitable for all skin types and is a new addition to my routine it comes in the white tube but I placed mine in the amber bottle because the pump didn't work)



Step 3: Apply Moisturiser 
Oil Free Moisturising Day Cream 24H Moisture Boost + Matte
(oily and combination skinLink Here 
(I have combination skin and it has taken me a while to figure out how to deal with it but this product has been a life saver for me)


Sending light and love to you all
Stay safe and wear a mask
Love Kay
xoxoxox


Pride History


Recent NewsOn June 15, 2020, the Supreme Court of the United States ruled that it is illegal for an employer to fire someone because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. The 6-3 ruling adds LGBTQ people to Title VII of the Civil Rights Act, which forbids discrimination based on sex, race, color, national origin and religion. 

What does LGBTQ stand for: 
L - Lesbian
G - Gay
B - Bisexual
T - Transgender
Q - Queer/ Questioning

Stone Riots a brief history: Very few establishments welcomed gay people in the 1950s and 1960s. At the time Stonewall Inn was owned by mafia, it catered to the poorest and most marginalised people in the community: Butch Lesbians, Effeminate young men, Drag Queens, Male Prostitutes, Transgender people and Homeless Youths. A year after Stonewall on June 28th 1970 the first gay pride marches took place in New York, Los Angeles and San Francisco.
The Stonewall Monument was established at the site in 2016.
Lillian Faderman calls the riots the 'Shots heard around the world' saying 'The Stonewall Rebellion was crucial because it sounded the rally for that movement, it became emblem of gay and lesbian power'.

 

LGBTQ timeline: 1688 to 2020
  • 1688 - 1704 - Kagemachaya a Japanese gay bar first opens in japan
  • 1785 - Jeremy Betham is one of the first people to argue for the decriminalization of sodomy in England.
  • 1794 - The kingdom of Prussia abolishes the death penalty for sodomy.
  • 1794 - Luxemburg decriminalises sodomy
  • 1794 - Belgium decriminalises sodomy.
  • 1807 - The Duchy of Warsaw is created and re - legalizing same sex sexual intercourse.
  • 1835 - The last known execution for homosexuality in Great Briton. James Prall and John Smith are hanged at Newgate after being caught together in private lodgings.
  • 1890 - Homosexuality is legalised in the Vatican.
  • 1895 - The trail of Oscar Wilde resulted in him being prosecuted under criminal law amendment act 1885 for gross indecency and sentenced to two years in prison.
  • 1906 - The first gay American novel with a happy ending Imre is published.
  •  1921 -  England attempts to make lesbians illegal for the first time in Britain history fails.
  • 1931 - Madchen in uniform is one of the first explicitly lesbian films and the first pro - lesbian film released.
  • 1938 - The word gay is used for the first time in film reference to homosexuality in the film Bringing Up The Baby.
  • 1941 - Transsexuality was first used in reference to homosexuality and bisexuality.
  • 1952 - The male homosexual magazine 'Adonis' is launched with the writer Yukio Mishima as a contributor in Japan.  
  • 1972 - Sweden becomes the first country to allow transsexuals to legally change their sex and provide free hormone therapy.
  • 1991 - The Red Ribbon was first used as a symbol for HIV/AIDS campaign.
1993 - Brandon Teena was raped and murdered, he was a trans man. 
  •  2001 - Same sex marriage laws came into effect in the Netherlands with joint adoption.
  • 2003 - Buffy the vampire slayer showed girlfriends Willow and Tara in bed together (not a sex scene) but a first for its kind for the Network. 
2005 - Mahmoud Asgari and Ayaz Marhoni were executed in Iran for allegedly raping a 13 year old boy or for just being gay?? 
(this one doesn't make sense to me so I have posted the official link to see if you can understand itHere's the story     

                            
  • 2009 - Carol Ann Duffy was chosen as the first openly gay poet laureate in the UK.
  • 2012 - Taiwan's first same sex Buddhist wedding was for Fish Huang and her partner You Ya-Ting ❤
  • 2013 - Todd Hughes became the first openly gay US Circuit Judge.
  • 2014 - The first open transgender woman got married in Malta.
  • 2016 - Amanda Nunes become UFCs first openly gay champion.
  •  2017 - Queer art show leads Tate 2017 programme
  • 2018 - The first time in history of the winter Olympics that male athletes competed in who were openly gay.
  • 2019 -  Prince Harry and Megan became the first British royals to celebrate LGBTQ Pride Month.
  • 2020 - The US Supreme Court ruled a federal law protecting gay, lesbian and transgender employees from work place discrimination. 
There's a million other mile stones that have happened over the years good and bad above are a few that jumped out at me.

What are your most memorable things throughout LGBTQ History?
















Life Update, I'm Back


And we are back in the blogging game after 2 years! 

As we all know and have been in lockdown (kill me) I'll be very honest with you guys its been so hard, so hard. I hope it has been do-able for you guys, I hope you have coped better than me as I turned to food!
I officially went into self isolation on the 24th March and the shop I work in shut on the 25th March so since then we have been on furlough pay (its shit) but we are luckier than others so I am grateful for that.
Also the pub I worked in closed and wont be reopening so I don't have that no more which is a shit because I really liked it but it cant be helped.

How many days have I been in lockdown? - As of today my computer says its the 11/06/2020 I have been in lockdown for 80 days, I tracked it on my calendar. 

What have I done in lockdown? - Honestly nothing! 
I will not becoming out of this lockdown professional at anything other than eating, no new skills, no new languages, I am not tiktok famous, I am still single still. 
The only thing I did do was perfect my skin care routing and start brushing my hair and that's ok.

this is how bad my hair has gotten!! i need a hair dresser so bad... and the eyebrows lord heaven help me.
This is how bad my hair has gotten!! 
I need a hair dresser badly... and the eyebrows lord heaven help me.

Wired has outlined some of the new rules of lifting lockdown check them out Here for those of you who didn't know like me because I have been avoiding the news.
15th June is faze 2 the official day when None essential shops can start opening clothes shops and books shops. 



What have I learnt about myself in lockdown?
1: I love to eat everything and anything.... Except tomatoes!
2: I love cold coffee.
3: I hoard books 
4: I don't prioritize money properly 
5: I could live in my Pj'S, Forever!
6: I have no hobbies what so ever.
7: I have the attention span of a goldfish.
8: The only dishes I can cook pre lockdown are spaghetti bolognaise, curry oh and beans on toast.
9: I started at the Open University.
10: The only house work I like doing is washing my clothes.
11: I have got more steps in walking around my living room than I ever did outside.
12: I do not own a pair of trainers. (pre lockdown)
13: TikTok scares me! (everyone is so talented, I am not!)
14: I love everything Korean. 
15: I will never be thin. 

Just a little good news for you all I have made plans with my friend for dinner when everything is open again.

Tell me in the comments how your experience is going/ has been in lockdown.
wash your hands and wear a mask.

Stay safe and sane guys
Love
Kay
xoxoxoxo







Poem: Dare.

Dare.

Dare is not about being a rebel, it's about being honest to yourself.
Dare to have a opinion.
Dare to make mistakes.
Dare to love.
Dare to stand behind your beliefs.
Dare to change.
Dare to be different.

Dare.

BOOK: Red Azelea by Anchee Min

Red Azalea is a memoir of Chinese American writer Anchee Min.
It was written during the first eight years she spent in the United States, from 1984 to 1992, and tells the story of her personal experience during the Cultural Revolution.


The memoir was written in English.
The names of the characters were translated into English instead of being spelled phonetically. For example, Min's first name, Anchee, means Jade of Peace, and her siblings' names are Blooming, Coral, and Space Conqueror.
The autobiography deals with themes of ideology and gender and sexual psychology.

Part one
In part one, Min tells the story of her childhood in Shanghai under the rule of Mao Zedong during the 1960s. She believes wholeheartedly in Mao's Communism, and is an outstanding student. Her first conflict with this system comes when a favourite teacher is put on trial for espionage and the young Anchee Min is expected to testify against her.

Part two
Part two tells of her life on a farm outside of Shanghai with other teenagers. She is moved to a place called Red Fire Farm a labour camp. She was assigned to work there and has little hope of escaping her life of manual labour. At this point, Min finds a role model to follow and stays on track with Maoism. She soon finds difficulty, however, when a friend is mentally broken by interrogation and humiliation after being discovered in a sexual situation with a man. Abuse of power by her superiors and a lesbian relationship with another farm-worker further erode Min's trust in Maoism. At the end of Part Two, she has been selected to move back to Shanghai and train to be an actress.

Part three
Part three is the story of her training at a film studio, in competition with other young trainees. More abuse of power and complex love relationships exacerbate her disillusion with Mao's system. She comes in and out of favour with her superiors in the film studio, depending on who is in charge. Eventually, her acting career falls through, and Min works as a clerk in the studio. At the end of part three, in 1976, Mao dies, and his wife Jiang Qing is arrested. The next few years are briefly mentioned, and the memoir ends with a short explanation of how Min came to live in the United States in 1984.

 

Be Brave 💪


Hi every one well first off this post is gunner be full-ish of things To Do,
Join and Enjoy.

If you are brave enough to face the weather in this crazy country we call the UK and swim outside then this website is for you. It has destination all over the world not just the UK in the warmer months I will be there swimming away. Be brave people the water will be cold and Be Wild

(Just for the ladies sorry) Now for all you independent, self driven, motivated, strong, I love to travel ladies out their this website will be for you, you can plan trips, meet people at your destination, arrange meet ups in different countries but its only for the ladies. check it out I have already joined.

Now for all you people out their who dare to go naked this might be for you life models for nude drawing, sculpturing, painting. There's many different things you could try why not have a look I myself am tempted.

Paul Walker


I know this post is a bit late but its here anyhow i would like to remember Paul Walker in pictures.

Paul William Walker IV[4] 
(September 12, 1973 – November 30, 2013) was an American actor.

On November 30, 2013, at approximately 3:30 p.m. PST, Walker and friend Roger Roda's, age 38, left an event for Walker's charity Reach Out Worldwide for victims of Typhoon Haiyan in Roda's red 2005 Porsche Carrera GT. After leaving the event, the car crashed into a light pole and tree on Hercules Street near Kelly Johnson Parkway in Valencia, Santa Clarita, California, after which the vehicle burst into flames. The Los Angeles County Sheriff’s Department declared both victims dead at the scene. Roda's died of multiple traumatic injuries, while Walker died of the combined effects of traumatic and thermal injuries, according to the Los Angeles county coroner's office.