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Life Update.... What's Next

Hello everybody who reads my blog I have been gone for a hot moment there, but I am back, and I have so much to tell you all because so much has happened and so much is going to happen heading into next year.

First things first, I quit my job!

I am at peace with my decision. I am no longer angry within myself, and I feel the need to take some time out I was becoming not a very nice person which I didn't want, nor did I like.
I have started swimming again about 3 times a week so I rejoined the gym as a pay and go customer till January then I will move onto a membership. I am very happy with that.
I have started walking again and I love it, just walking all wrapped up in all weathers... I just walk.

On to the next part I am finally going to Australia (insert crazy scream)
My beautiful friend Becky and her Fiancé Stephen are getting married in January and I am invited (YAY) and I'm going.
Visa, Flight, cattery, trains all booked, exciting times.

I paid off my working holiday to Australia and hopefully the visas will open in time for me to leave in March. It is taking so long because I am older that the current visa age limit, but the company said the age limit is changing to 35/36 but when they do is anyone's guess.

So that's a rough lowdown on life.
I promise to keep up on my blog, but its contents might be changing a bit to Travel, Food, DIY Projects and sustainability, Climate change.



BOOK: Homebody by Rupi Kaur

My Review: I love this book.
                 I love all this ladies writing's.

Rupi Kaur constantly embraces growth, and in home body, she walks readers through a reflective and intimate journey visiting the past, the present, and the potential of the self. home body is a collection of raw, honest conversations with oneself – reminding readers to fill up on love, acceptance, community, family, and embrace change. Illustrated by the author, themes of nature and nurture, light and dark, rest here.


I dive into the well of my body
and end up in another world
everything I need
already exists in me
there’s no need
to look anywhere else
– home




December - Capricorn - Chinese Zodiac

December - Capricorn - Rabbit

December born people are: 
           : Highly disciplined and hold great self control
           : They are responsible and at the some time unforgiving.

December born specialities:
: Their outlook on life is all about exploration and wants to live and enjoy the present.
: You are a multi tasking person who is very talented.
: You tend to get bored of things very quickly.
: You are very sharp and a quick learner.
: The best career for us is in the field of medicine.

Capricorn: We are understanding, sweet and sympathetic.


Rabbit - Tu'
Fire Rabbit
1915 - 1927 - 1931 - 1951 - 1963 - 1975 - 1987 - 1999 - 2011 - 2023
Earthly branch of birth year - Mao Wu Xing
The five elements - Wood (Mu)
Yin Yang - Yin


The rabbit is a tame creature representing hope and life for a long time, they are tender and loving.
The moon goddess Chang'e is the Chinese legend and has a rabbit as her pet which is thought that only this creature is enough to match her natural beauty.
Another way of looking at it is the rabbit is a reincarnation of the moon goddess and is a symbol of pureness and auspiciousness.
Rabbits love freedom and once they set goals they march forward without hesitation or distraction, they are self disciplined, strict with them selves but tolerant with others.
Rabbits look mild and soft but they are alert to dangers and outsiders.
They don't easily trust but do have a courteous manners in social settings.


Celebrities/ Important people born on 23rd December:
Eddie Vedder
Madam CJ Walker
Carol Ann Duffy
Donna Tartt
Muhammed Zafar Iqtal

Shows released 23rd December:
Good morning Vietnam released 1987 
20,000 Leagues under the sea released 1954

Kpop Starts Birthdays on the 23rd December:
Kim Siheon (Noir)
Jaehyo (Block B)
Sanghoon (100%)
Woo
Park Jiwon

Minimalist Lifestyle - My Take On It

Minimalist Lifestyle The Basics 

*personal opinions are in red just like this text*

Minimalist Meaning: Keeping Things Very Simple.
A minimalist prefers the minimal amount or degree of something. But anyone who likes things very simple could be called a minimalist.
*I fail a little at this as I am a teacher*

Minimalist Lifestyle
Living with less. This includes less financial burdens such as debt and unnecessary expenses. For many minimalists, the philosophy is about getting rid of excess stuff and living life based on experiences rather than possessions. 

What is extreme Minimalist?: 
It involves choosing to live a life with only the barest of necessities for example having no furniture but that's the extreme side of it. *My personal opinion here is just make sure you wear the stuff you have and donate what you don't wear*

How to start in minimalist?: 
1: Create a clear mindset: Its important to have a good mindset as this will help in the physical decluttering process. Creating a minimalist mindset is living with awareness. *its really just about making a few changes to create a habit to start clearing your mental clutter*

2: Make your intentions clear: You need to know why you want to make this lifestyle change a reality, the reasons can be 
                   - You want to save money?
                   -You want more space around the home?
                   - You want more experiences over things?
If you start feeling over whelmed along the way go back to the beginning and go thought why you are doing this. *I started my journey so I can pay off debt then save for teaching abroad*

3: One room at a time: Pick one room at a time and focus on decluttering that space before moving on to the next one so you don't get overwhelmed and give up. *Listen carefully to this step because I got overwhelmed a few times and still do*

4: Get a system: Stick to the decluttering system! 
Your 3 piles could be - Keep
                               -Donate
                               - Throw
Don't keep anything for "JUST IN CASE"
*I always kept a bag of clothes that needed adjusting as I am just too small ill be honest I haven't got rid of it yet*

5: Your closet: Some rule to live by - 
- Never keep anything you feel uncomfortable in.
- Follow the old rule of throwing/ donating anything you haven't used in 6 months.
- Stick with a similar colour pallet so your clothes coordinate.
How to: Try everything on (EVERYTHING)
            : Get rid of anything with holes/ torn/ stained.
            : Donate anything you are not comfortable in or is too small.
*This is the first thing I did I tried one everything from tights, underwear, summer, winter clothes, everything*

6: Go paperless: *I am learning this part myself*
How to: Get everything paper out and make 2 piles KEEP/ BIN
Keep: Birth certificates
         :ID -drivers licence/ passport
         :Education Certificates/ degrees /diplomas 
         :Licences - Marriage/ divorce certificate
         : Insurance/ health polices/ tax information/ morgage
Bin: Old bills (longer than a year)
     :Payslips (longer than a year)
     :News letters/ update letters
     :Old employment contracts
     :Bank statements
*Most of the time businesses do a online option even in receipts so always opt for it if you can Don't just bin these documents as they will have sensitive information on the have them shredded or burned. Going paperless not only adds towards a more minimal lifestyle but it massively reduces your carbon footprint*

7: Experience not Possessions:
Choose to enrich your life with experiences or new skills maybe a new adventure.
Birthdays and Christmas's are great for new experience's.
- Fun group activity.
- Days out
- Picnics
- Fell walking

8: Replace don't add:
Try to resist adding to your possessions by replacing things why they are finally at the end of their life or too old to use and then only replace then if you really need them. Most of the time you already have something similar that could do the job or you could just with out it in general.
Resist as many purchases as possible we do not want to buy in to fast fashion or cheap items. *my own rule with this is use what you have first because no doubt you have a few of them. Remember old body wash and shampoos can be used as hand soap for the skinks once their in a different bottle no one will know the difference, I have one in my kitchen and bathroom sink for the hand wash same goes for body moisturiser they can be used for the hands also again just place them in a different container*

9: Consider alternative living.
Many people are living by smaller spaces these days. Space is a premium and anything that doesn't have a use is a nuisance.
- Van life *I always dreamed of van life but I cant drive*
- Small homes

10: Cut down TV: The average person in the UK spends 24 hours a week watching TV.
- Limit your tv to the evenings.
- Go on a walk/ hike
- Get into youtube (there's many free videos on there)
- Read a book
- Play cards/ board games
- Cook or learn to cook (see youtube)
- Talk/ Start a conversation
*I don't have tv haven't had for about 2 years now, I have Netflix/ prime and youtube. I get the news every morning from suri* 

11: Travel light: This is self explanatory.
Trust me you don't want to be lugging a suitcase around with you full of cloths you don't wear just because they were on sale.

12: Plan your meals: The UK household wastes £470 worth of food a year, planning what you will eat for the whole month/ fortnightly/ weekly helps and saves you money. 
How to: Write out the ingredient that's needed for the meals and only buy that.
           : Get delivery if you can then there's no temptation for browsing!
*I have four meals throughout the month so next months will be bolognaise sauce, sweet chilli prawn linguine, fajita wraps, curry (tikka, korma, saga loo ect). I spend one afternoon making all the sauces in batches then freeze them, I make rice and pasta, spaghetti fresh when I need it, my advice for that is don't freeze it I have tried it and for me it came out soggy when defrosted. When I need a meal I get one out of the freezer in the morning to defrost for tea in the evening*.

Links: The Minimalists These boys have been going for about 10 years and are now on Netflix.
Extreme minimalist Check out this lady if you want extreme


 

Memorial Day For Comfort Woman in South Korea 14th March

      Memorial Day in South Korea for Comfort Woman

The international memorial day was held for Asian women forced into sexual slavery by the Japanese military during World War II.
The National ceremony marking the International Memorial Day for Comfort Women took place at the Hill of National Commemoration in Cheonan, south of Seoul, with the slogan of "memory for the future."
About 100 people, including elderly Korean women sexually enslaved by the imperial Japanese army, participated.
South Koreans have called on Japan to offer a sincere apology and compensation for the victims, but the neighbouring country has remained silent.
It is the third time that the government has hosted a national ceremony commemorating the day since 2018, when it was designated a national memorial day. 

The International Memorial Day for Comfort Women falls on Aug. 14th, the day when the late Kim Hak-soon, a former comfort woman, first publicly testified about Japan operating an organized military brothel program during the war in 1991.


"The testimony by Kim Hak-soon resonated across the globe, revealing the truth and the violence against women," she said. "Now we have to think of what we can learn from the tragedy in history."
The government then opened a digital archive that stored more than 500 files of documents and materials on "comfort women," a euphemistic term for the former sex slaves. 
The online depository (www.archive814.co.kr) includes reports by the United Nations forces during the Korean War and official statements by the Japanese government.

Up to 200,000 women, mostly Koreans, were coerced into sexual servitude in front-line Japanese brothels when the Korean Peninsula was a Japanese colony.





#LifeInaDay2020

     Take Part 

In 2020, history is being made every day. 

Australian bushfires. Civil unrest in Hong Kong. A pandemic that took precious lives and changed the way we live. Protests in every corner of America — and around the world — to demand that Black Lives Matter. But in the midst of these extraordinary events, everyday life still continues.

We share moments, music, and meals.

We dance. We laugh. We cry.

We love. We fear. We hope.

What if we captured all of it in a single day? On Saturday, July 25, 2020, film your day and upload your footage and you may become part of a historic documentary – a time capsule of the year 2020. 


Anyone can participate and submissions from all over the world will be woven together to create a feature film, produced by Ridley Scott, directed by Kevin Macdonald, filmed by you, and premiering at the 2021 Sundance Film Festival.
Submissions open on July 25th and close on August 2nd.

Let’s write the story of 2020 together.


Review: Blackhead Remover Facial Skin Care Vacuum

Alright guys I've got a crazy review for you, so everyone has been talking about Blackhead Remover Facial Skin Care Pore Cleaner Vacuum so I found on Ebay for under a tenner (bargain) I had to have it here's how it went in steps!

I read the instructions, all 6 pages of it!
- Put the machine on charge 
(it had some life in it but you can never be too sure)

- Then I washed my face with hot water to open the pores, clean all the days junk 

- The instructions say work from the chin up 
(did that it nipped a bit and suctioned my lips)

- Then the forehead: middle to hair line 
(ok did that that didn't hurt at all)

- Cheeks: nose to ear (I did that and holy fuck did it hurt)

- Nose: for this I choose a smaller head to get in the little sides of your nose 
(did it hurt? did it hurt? well yes it bloody did)

***PAIN WARNING ALWAYS USE THE MOST GENTLE/ LOWEST SETTING TO START***





Personal Review: 
This machine hurts so bad. I ended up giving my nose and the side of my mouth a hickey also I bruised my chin badly.
My face afterwards was so hot and red its unbelievable, I wont be using this again in a hurry maybe once a month (maybe) this was my first time using it so maybe I need more experience.

Aftercare: After you have used this machine I would recommend cooling your face down somewhat before doing anything. I used a coconut facemask and left it on for 15 minutes which too some of the redness out of it but it was still extremely hot. When you feel ready, go ahead with your usual night routine and enjoy your sleep and drink plenty of water.